Sanctuary for Families mourns the passing of Dr. George M. Lazarus, a longtime supporter, former Sanctuary Board member, and compassionate advocate who dedicated his life to caring for others.
Sanctuary for Families mourns the passing of Dr. George M. Lazarus, a longtime supporter, former Sanctuary Board member, and compassionate advocate who dedicated his life to caring for others. George passed away on January 20, 2025, at the age of 78, leaving behind a legacy of service to both the medical field and the community, particularly for survivors of domestic violence and their children.
A renowned pediatrician, George spent over 40 years in private practice and as an attending physician at New York Presbyterian Hospital. His commitment to children’s health was mirrored in his advocacy for the vulnerable children affected by domestic violence, a cause that deeply resonated with him. His understanding of the trauma domestic violence inflicts on children—disrupting their safety, emotional stability, and long-term development—drove his deep involvement with Sanctuary for Families.
After being introduced to Sanctuary through a friend, George and his wife, Shelly, were immediately moved by our mission to support those left without adequate resources or protection.
As George noted in a conversation we had with him in 2022,
“So many of the ills affecting society are caused by domestic violence. The scope of the problem is underestimated and underappreciated.”
This recognition of the far-reaching impact of gender-based violence spurred George and Shelly to support Sanctuary in numerous ways.

George was a dedicated and active contributor to Sanctuary’s mission. As a Board member, he served on several committees, always approaching discussions with thoughtfulness and a unique ability to frame the key issues at hand. George could always be relied upon to ask the questions everyone was thinking—or the ones no one had considered—challenging us to think deeper and act more effectively. His insight and passion enriched our work and strengthened our commitment to the families we serve.
Outside of his work with Sanctuary, George was a devoted teacher, mentor, and philanthropist, with a lifelong commitment to his family and his patients. Our deepest condolences go out to his wife, Shelly, his brother Robert, his children Ted (Lara), Samantha (Duncan), Ben (Jessie), and his grandchildren.
As we remember George, we honor his profound contributions to the field of pediatrics, his generosity and leadership at Sanctuary, and his lasting impact on countless lives. His legacy will continue to inspire us in our mission to support survivors of domestic violence and their children.