Sanctuary for Families honors the life and legacy of Gilman Sessions Burke, accomplished attorney, member of Sanctuary’s President’s Council, and one of Sanctuary’s most pivotal early supporters. Gil passed away peacefully on Christmas night at the age of 92.
A man of remarkable kindness, integrity, and vision, Gil played a foundational role in shaping Sanctuary’s mission and impact, ensuring its growth from the very beginning. His law firm, Satterlee Stevens Burke & Burke, became Sanctuary’s first operations hub, providing critical legal services, hosting Board meetings, managing filings and audits, and connecting Sanctuary to vital resources.
Gil was married to his first wife, Sarah Burke, who was a founding Board member and early Board Chair of Sanctuary. Sarah dedicated 24 years to advocating passionately for survivors of domestic violence and their children until her passing in 2006. Together, Gil and Sarah embodied our mission by opening their home to Sanctuary’s first family in need, a profound act of compassion and commitment. In honor of Sarah’s extraordinary contributions, Sanctuary named its 58-family transitional shelter in the Bronx the “Sarah Burke House.”
Mary Ann Mailman, former Sanctuary Board President and close friend, recalled,
“We were all so fortunate to have had Gil in our corner. Without Gil’s unfailing support, Sanctuary would never have survived.”
Beyond Sanctuary, Gil’s contributions extended to numerous causes, from environmental preservation to education. His leadership and kindness left an indelible mark on every community he touched.

Gil is survived by his wife Sarah Bayne and by his own children Molly and Dana Burke, and preceded in death by his youngest son, Nathaniel. He is also survived by his stepsons Nick and Peter Bayne, Nick’s wife, Sunshine Bayne, as well as Gil’s five beloved grandchildren and his dear sister Kate.
As we reflect on Gil’s extraordinary life, we honor his legacy by continuing the work he made possible. His dedication to creating a better world will inspire us for generations to come.
Our deepest condolences go out to his second wife, Sarah, his children, and all who were privileged to know him.
A celebration of Gil’s life will be held on Saturday, February 15, at 2 p.m. at St. Philip’s Church in Garrison, New York.